- My best friend is ecstatic in her relationship. She got married last October and couldn't have waited one more second before she was able to say "my husband this or my husband that". The day after Valentine's Day she called all of her friends to make sure we knew that her first V-day as a married couple was wonderful. In almost every conversation that we have, she manages to slip in "aw, married life is great!"
- My other friend is taking another significant step in her relationship - she is moving in with her boyfriend of one year. She vowed that she wouldn't move in with another boyfriend unless they were engaged, but alas, she didn't wait for the ring this time. She is sure that he is right and I'm secretly hoping that he isn't. I know her well, and I think she deserves much much better. But it's all about learning through your own time and that is exactly what she needs to figure it out.
-I have another girlfriend who is 27 and a virgin. She can't find a boyfriend for her life and believe me, she's tried everything - speed dating, online, being set up by friends, etc. I feel so badly for her but the only advice I can giver her is to get wasted, have a (safe) one-night stand, and just get on with her life. I truly feel that once the sex comes, the rest will too.
-My girfriend's divorced was just finalized on Saturday. This is the girl who's husband was cheating on her for 1.5 years of their 2 year marriage. No fun. We had a little party for her Saturday night, complete with wine, food, and of course, lots and lots of lingerie to celebrate her new-found singleness. She still broke out in tears a couple of times throughout the evening, but I have to say that she sure seems a lot happier these days. I wish her all the luck in the world.
-My little 15 year old sister has been in a 3 month relationship with the guy of her dreams. They were so cute, always together, supporting eachother, taking pictures together. She emailed me this morning that he broke up with her yesterday and she is beyond devastated. Ugh, I feel so badly for her. Remember young love? Could be so great and yet so so shitty.
I'm very happy to report that C and I are doing extremely well these days. We're having fun, spending a lot of time together and with friends, and having a lot of sex. Sorry if thats TMI but I'm telling you, it makes every relationship better. The one thing that sucks is that C is still not working and it's sorta kinda freaking me out but I'm trying to stay calm because when you work freelance, this is your life.
I also want to tell you that I am HUGELY aware that I have sucked at the blogging thing as of late. No posts, no comments, nada. And I am sorry. You guys know that sometimes life gets in the way. SO if I'm only commenting on every other post of yours or sometimes every three posts, it doesn't reflect my lack of love for ya. Believe me, that's still there :)